"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mike's current state of affairs.

ElStud

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Well lol in college and got my own apartment. But basically I've been approaching a lot and sh*t hasn't really been going anywhere. Like I'll approach a lot of sets, but stuff doesn't go anywhere. Because of this I'm just highly considering giving up the whole thing. I mean I love going up to sets, just to improve my social skills, but nothing goes anywhere. Good news though is I actually called a girl and now we're on for next week.

But yeah, it's like I said... when it comes to girls vs. video games, I'd prefer video games because they're actually fun. There's this college dance tonight, but I don't know if I'm gonna go or not. And yes, this is my current state of affairs. I think my main problem is... I need to find a bigger purpose than women in life. I focus way too much on them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dav27

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If i was still at square one after being on this site for what must be nearly 2 years i'd be thinking i'm overlooking something big. Have a think.
 

theunflushables

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ElStud said:
Well lol in college and got my own apartment. But basically I've been approaching a lot and sh*t hasn't really been going anywhere. Like I'll approach a lot of sets, but stuff doesn't go anywhere. Because of this I'm just highly considering giving up the whole thing. I mean I love going up to sets, just to improve my social skills, but nothing goes anywhere. Good news though is I actually called a girl and now we're on for next week.

But yeah, it's like I said... when it comes to girls vs. video games, I'd prefer video games because they're actually fun. There's this college dance tonight, but I don't know if I'm gonna go or not. And yes, this is my current state of affairs. I think my main problem is... I need to find a bigger purpose than women in life. I focus way too much on them.
El, see look, we've been telling you to call your numbers and set up a day two. Now that you've got one set up, you have to escalate.

As far as videogames being more fun than girls, I have to disagree, I'd rather be giving a girl a healthy deepd1cking than mashing buttons to make charchters on the screen move.

But yes, you do find a bigger purpose in life than women. That purpose should be yourself.
 

Solomon

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ROFL @ video games being more fun then girls

what kind of girls you approaching?

bwahhahahahahaha
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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