Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Mike's current state of affairs.

ElStud

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Well lol in college and got my own apartment. But basically I've been approaching a lot and sh*t hasn't really been going anywhere. Like I'll approach a lot of sets, but stuff doesn't go anywhere. Because of this I'm just highly considering giving up the whole thing. I mean I love going up to sets, just to improve my social skills, but nothing goes anywhere. Good news though is I actually called a girl and now we're on for next week.

But yeah, it's like I said... when it comes to girls vs. video games, I'd prefer video games because they're actually fun. There's this college dance tonight, but I don't know if I'm gonna go or not. And yes, this is my current state of affairs. I think my main problem is... I need to find a bigger purpose than women in life. I focus way too much on them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If i was still at square one after being on this site for what must be nearly 2 years i'd be thinking i'm overlooking something big. Have a think.
 

theunflushables

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ElStud said:
Well lol in college and got my own apartment. But basically I've been approaching a lot and sh*t hasn't really been going anywhere. Like I'll approach a lot of sets, but stuff doesn't go anywhere. Because of this I'm just highly considering giving up the whole thing. I mean I love going up to sets, just to improve my social skills, but nothing goes anywhere. Good news though is I actually called a girl and now we're on for next week.

But yeah, it's like I said... when it comes to girls vs. video games, I'd prefer video games because they're actually fun. There's this college dance tonight, but I don't know if I'm gonna go or not. And yes, this is my current state of affairs. I think my main problem is... I need to find a bigger purpose than women in life. I focus way too much on them.
El, see look, we've been telling you to call your numbers and set up a day two. Now that you've got one set up, you have to escalate.

As far as videogames being more fun than girls, I have to disagree, I'd rather be giving a girl a healthy deepd1cking than mashing buttons to make charchters on the screen move.

But yes, you do find a bigger purpose in life than women. That purpose should be yourself.
 

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ROFL @ video games being more fun then girls

what kind of girls you approaching?

bwahhahahahahaha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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