"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mike's current state of affairs.

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ElStud

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Well lol in college and got my own apartment. But basically I've been approaching a lot and sh*t hasn't really been going anywhere. Like I'll approach a lot of sets, but stuff doesn't go anywhere. Because of this I'm just highly considering giving up the whole thing. I mean I love going up to sets, just to improve my social skills, but nothing goes anywhere. Good news though is I actually called a girl and now we're on for next week.

But yeah, it's like I said... when it comes to girls vs. video games, I'd prefer video games because they're actually fun. There's this college dance tonight, but I don't know if I'm gonna go or not. And yes, this is my current state of affairs. I think my main problem is... I need to find a bigger purpose than women in life. I focus way too much on them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If i was still at square one after being on this site for what must be nearly 2 years i'd be thinking i'm overlooking something big. Have a think.
 
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ElStud said:
Well lol in college and got my own apartment. But basically I've been approaching a lot and sh*t hasn't really been going anywhere. Like I'll approach a lot of sets, but stuff doesn't go anywhere. Because of this I'm just highly considering giving up the whole thing. I mean I love going up to sets, just to improve my social skills, but nothing goes anywhere. Good news though is I actually called a girl and now we're on for next week.

But yeah, it's like I said... when it comes to girls vs. video games, I'd prefer video games because they're actually fun. There's this college dance tonight, but I don't know if I'm gonna go or not. And yes, this is my current state of affairs. I think my main problem is... I need to find a bigger purpose than women in life. I focus way too much on them.
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El, see look, we've been telling you to call your numbers and set up a day two. Now that you've got one set up, you have to escalate.

As far as videogames being more fun than girls, I have to disagree, I'd rather be giving a girl a healthy deepd1cking than mashing buttons to make charchters on the screen move.

But yes, you do find a bigger purpose in life than women. That purpose should be yourself.
 
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ROFL @ video games being more fun then girls

what kind of girls you approaching?

bwahhahahahahaha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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