"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Might try acting aloof for a change....

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vendetta081789

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You should quit bumping and start reading the DJ handbook, or learn from experience. I personally like to experience things, THEN read. I tend to see that my findings are generally true. It helps me build trust in the handbook itself. Either way, we have offered all the advice we can from a third party perspective. This is your relationship, and not ours to coach your every move. I have faith in you, you DJ. Go for it...
 

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Vendetta081789 said:
You should quit bumping and start reading the DJ handbook, or learn from experience. I personally like to experience things, THEN read. I tend to see that my findings are generally true. It helps me build trust in the handbook itself. Either way, we have offered all the advice we can from a third party perspective. This is your relationship, and not ours to coach your every move. I have faith in you, you DJ. Go for it...
well, im going to be experiencing this weekend...but for now, living in a dorm is really boring.....so im bumping it to get the most out of it.

link to handbook?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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