"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Might try acting aloof for a change....

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vendetta081789

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You should quit bumping and start reading the DJ handbook, or learn from experience. I personally like to experience things, THEN read. I tend to see that my findings are generally true. It helps me build trust in the handbook itself. Either way, we have offered all the advice we can from a third party perspective. This is your relationship, and not ours to coach your every move. I have faith in you, you DJ. Go for it...
 
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Vendetta081789 said:
You should quit bumping and start reading the DJ handbook, or learn from experience. I personally like to experience things, THEN read. I tend to see that my findings are generally true. It helps me build trust in the handbook itself. Either way, we have offered all the advice we can from a third party perspective. This is your relationship, and not ours to coach your every move. I have faith in you, you DJ. Go for it...
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well, im going to be experiencing this weekend...but for now, living in a dorm is really boring.....so im bumping it to get the most out of it.

link to handbook?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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