"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Might try acting aloof for a change....

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You should quit bumping and start reading the DJ handbook, or learn from experience. I personally like to experience things, THEN read. I tend to see that my findings are generally true. It helps me build trust in the handbook itself. Either way, we have offered all the advice we can from a third party perspective. This is your relationship, and not ours to coach your every move. I have faith in you, you DJ. Go for it...
 
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Vendetta081789 said:
You should quit bumping and start reading the DJ handbook, or learn from experience. I personally like to experience things, THEN read. I tend to see that my findings are generally true. It helps me build trust in the handbook itself. Either way, we have offered all the advice we can from a third party perspective. This is your relationship, and not ours to coach your every move. I have faith in you, you DJ. Go for it...
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well, im going to be experiencing this weekend...but for now, living in a dorm is really boring.....so im bumping it to get the most out of it.

link to handbook?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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