This is a girl I never got together with, we were just really close. I just never could work up the guts to tell her how I felt, and I eventually gave up when she stated dating one of my friends (not a close one though). We eventually drifted apart when I went to college, and I've maybe seen her a couple times in the last year or 2. Anyway, I was talking to her online and asked her if she wanted to do something next week. She asked me when, but unfortunately I don't know my schedule next week so I told her I wasn't sure yet. She wants me to call or text her when I find out. I'm not 100% what to do if I meet up with her, if she was a new girl I'd be fine but we have history and there's no way she doesn't know I like/liked her (and probably knows I have my own agenda for meeting up with her). If you guys have ever gone through this I'd love some advice. Thanks.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Might possibly be going out with the girl I used to be in love with?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dont get your hopes up brah.
Just go with the intention of hanging with an old friend. Show her how much more alpha you are these days. Dont confess your undying love to her or some other BS. if you've progressed and changed for the better she might be like "oh wow look what he turned into!" if you are the same dont expect different results then what previously occurred.
Just go with the intention of hanging with an old friend. Show her how much more alpha you are these days. Dont confess your undying love to her or some other BS. if you've progressed and changed for the better she might be like "oh wow look what he turned into!" if you are the same dont expect different results then what previously occurred.
Congrats! You've got a whole new free pass to seduce her again!
It's actually a great try for a do-over.
You were too ashamed or scared to lay it on the line last time. Well, you get a mulligan! You didn't even KNOW this retry was coming, so what's the big deal?
Come in strong (not pushy, but confident). Be happy.
It's actually a great try for a do-over.
You were too ashamed or scared to lay it on the line last time. Well, you get a mulligan! You didn't even KNOW this retry was coming, so what's the big deal?
Come in strong (not pushy, but confident). Be happy.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
AlexTheGreat
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Just have fun and don't stress (like you seem to be doing).
Treat her like a new girl. You said it yourself, you haven't talked to her in ages. Hence, do you even know her anymore? (other than on the physical aspect).
Chances are, you know nothing of who she is now and what she has become. Same goes for her towards you: you've changed, and she doesn't know how.
Consider this a new beginning, a new opportunity at getting to know someone
this means, don't stress, take it easy, and just have fun!
Treat her like any other girl, and have other things to do
Treat her like a new girl. You said it yourself, you haven't talked to her in ages. Hence, do you even know her anymore? (other than on the physical aspect).
Chances are, you know nothing of who she is now and what she has become. Same goes for her towards you: you've changed, and she doesn't know how.
Consider this a new beginning, a new opportunity at getting to know someone
this means, don't stress, take it easy, and just have fun!Treat her like any other girl, and have other things to do
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
a) know your schedule BEFORE setting up a date (dont be unsure)
b) Dont say "lets do something"... take charge & invite her out to do a certain thing
c) play off the previous "crush"... dont deny it, but if she asks about it, just say it was just a little crush.
d) dress good, smell good, be alpha & confident, smile often, eye contact, etc. do it bro
b) Dont say "lets do something"... take charge & invite her out to do a certain thing
c) play off the previous "crush"... dont deny it, but if she asks about it, just say it was just a little crush.
d) dress good, smell good, be alpha & confident, smile often, eye contact, etc. do it bro