This is a girl I never got together with, we were just really close. I just never could work up the guts to tell her how I felt, and I eventually gave up when she stated dating one of my friends (not a close one though). We eventually drifted apart when I went to college, and I've maybe seen her a couple times in the last year or 2. Anyway, I was talking to her online and asked her if she wanted to do something next week. She asked me when, but unfortunately I don't know my schedule next week so I told her I wasn't sure yet. She wants me to call or text her when I find out. I'm not 100% what to do if I meet up with her, if she was a new girl I'd be fine but we have history and there's no way she doesn't know I like/liked her (and probably knows I have my own agenda for meeting up with her). If you guys have ever gone through this I'd love some advice. Thanks.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Might possibly be going out with the girl I used to be in love with?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dont get your hopes up brah.
Just go with the intention of hanging with an old friend. Show her how much more alpha you are these days. Dont confess your undying love to her or some other BS. if you've progressed and changed for the better she might be like "oh wow look what he turned into!" if you are the same dont expect different results then what previously occurred.
Just go with the intention of hanging with an old friend. Show her how much more alpha you are these days. Dont confess your undying love to her or some other BS. if you've progressed and changed for the better she might be like "oh wow look what he turned into!" if you are the same dont expect different results then what previously occurred.
Congrats! You've got a whole new free pass to seduce her again!
It's actually a great try for a do-over.
You were too ashamed or scared to lay it on the line last time. Well, you get a mulligan! You didn't even KNOW this retry was coming, so what's the big deal?
Come in strong (not pushy, but confident). Be happy.
It's actually a great try for a do-over.
You were too ashamed or scared to lay it on the line last time. Well, you get a mulligan! You didn't even KNOW this retry was coming, so what's the big deal?
Come in strong (not pushy, but confident). Be happy.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Just have fun and don't stress (like you seem to be doing).
Treat her like a new girl. You said it yourself, you haven't talked to her in ages. Hence, do you even know her anymore? (other than on the physical aspect).
Chances are, you know nothing of who she is now and what she has become. Same goes for her towards you: you've changed, and she doesn't know how.
Consider this a new beginning, a new opportunity at getting to know someone
this means, don't stress, take it easy, and just have fun!
Treat her like any other girl, and have other things to do
Treat her like a new girl. You said it yourself, you haven't talked to her in ages. Hence, do you even know her anymore? (other than on the physical aspect).
Chances are, you know nothing of who she is now and what she has become. Same goes for her towards you: you've changed, and she doesn't know how.
Consider this a new beginning, a new opportunity at getting to know someone
this means, don't stress, take it easy, and just have fun!Treat her like any other girl, and have other things to do
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
a) know your schedule BEFORE setting up a date (dont be unsure)
b) Dont say "lets do something"... take charge & invite her out to do a certain thing
c) play off the previous "crush"... dont deny it, but if she asks about it, just say it was just a little crush.
d) dress good, smell good, be alpha & confident, smile often, eye contact, etc. do it bro
b) Dont say "lets do something"... take charge & invite her out to do a certain thing
c) play off the previous "crush"... dont deny it, but if she asks about it, just say it was just a little crush.
d) dress good, smell good, be alpha & confident, smile often, eye contact, etc. do it bro