"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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midschool girl

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Hi! I've got this innocent midschool girl in my sportsteam. She's 15 and I'm 18. She said today that she's virgin and I said "well, do you want me to take it?"
But thi is not about getting her, cause I know I can. She's been hitting on me for a long while. The thing is the difference in age. My friends often talk about age-gaps and they think it's okay with like 1-2 years difference. I know they would think I was a wimp if I would go f*ck her. What do you guys think? Should I get a "secret" relationship with her? Is that possible?
What would you do, DJs?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sbgm said:
Hi! I've got this innocent midschool girl in my sportsteam. She's 15 and I'm 18. She said today that she's virgin and I said "well, do you want me to take it?"
But thi is not about getting her, cause I know I can. She's been hitting on me for a long while. The thing is the difference in age. My friends often talk about age-gaps and they think it's okay with like 1-2 years difference. I know they would think I was a wimp if I would go f*ck her. What do you guys think? Should I get a "secret" relationship with her? Is that possible?
What would you do, DJs?
I have a similar problem.

I'd keep it secret, but that's just me. Depends on how old she LOOKS.
 

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If you feel she's worth it then go for it my man, don't let your boys influence you. They will probably be jealous if she looks good and just make fun of you for the age gap but know they are joking.
 

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I'll assume you have low self esteem, are ugly, have no social skills and can drive. You may very well own a truck.

Why not stick to girls your own age?!
She's 15, so obviously she'll f*ck you. She is young and hasn't yet grasped the concept of love, romance, sex, and 18 year old guys who are too lame to go for girls their own age.
Why not get a women who is also Legal?
You're totally taking advantage of this girl, who doesn't know any better.

Be the wise one. Give her advice, and be her friend. I don't understand why you guys think it's all cool to get with these young girls who aren't yet old enough to grasp the concept of sex.

Get your game up, and go for girls your age or older.
When you were 15, and you saw girls your age sleeping with 18 and older guys, what were you thinking?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First of all: It is legal here. Second: She looks like she's 16-17. She's also friends with 18-year-olds. HB8
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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