"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi! I've got this innocent midschool girl in my sportsteam. She's 15 and I'm 18. She said today that she's virgin and I said "well, do you want me to take it?"
But thi is not about getting her, cause I know I can. She's been hitting on me for a long while. The thing is the difference in age. My friends often talk about age-gaps and they think it's okay with like 1-2 years difference. I know they would think I was a wimp if I would go f*ck her. What do you guys think? Should I get a "secret" relationship with her? Is that possible?
What would you do, DJs?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sbgm said:
Hi! I've got this innocent midschool girl in my sportsteam. She's 15 and I'm 18. She said today that she's virgin and I said "well, do you want me to take it?"
But thi is not about getting her, cause I know I can. She's been hitting on me for a long while. The thing is the difference in age. My friends often talk about age-gaps and they think it's okay with like 1-2 years difference. I know they would think I was a wimp if I would go f*ck her. What do you guys think? Should I get a "secret" relationship with her? Is that possible?
What would you do, DJs?
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I have a similar problem.

I'd keep it secret, but that's just me. Depends on how old she LOOKS.
 
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If you feel she's worth it then go for it my man, don't let your boys influence you. They will probably be jealous if she looks good and just make fun of you for the age gap but know they are joking.
 
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I'll assume you have low self esteem, are ugly, have no social skills and can drive. You may very well own a truck.

Why not stick to girls your own age?!
She's 15, so obviously she'll f*ck you. She is young and hasn't yet grasped the concept of love, romance, sex, and 18 year old guys who are too lame to go for girls their own age.
Why not get a women who is also Legal?
You're totally taking advantage of this girl, who doesn't know any better.

Be the wise one. Give her advice, and be her friend. I don't understand why you guys think it's all cool to get with these young girls who aren't yet old enough to grasp the concept of sex.

Get your game up, and go for girls your age or older.
When you were 15, and you saw girls your age sleeping with 18 and older guys, what were you thinking?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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First of all: It is legal here. Second: She looks like she's 16-17. She's also friends with 18-year-olds. HB8
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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