"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi! I've got this innocent midschool girl in my sportsteam. She's 15 and I'm 18. She said today that she's virgin and I said "well, do you want me to take it?"
But thi is not about getting her, cause I know I can. She's been hitting on me for a long while. The thing is the difference in age. My friends often talk about age-gaps and they think it's okay with like 1-2 years difference. I know they would think I was a wimp if I would go f*ck her. What do you guys think? Should I get a "secret" relationship with her? Is that possible?
What would you do, DJs?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sbgm said:
Hi! I've got this innocent midschool girl in my sportsteam. She's 15 and I'm 18. She said today that she's virgin and I said "well, do you want me to take it?"
But thi is not about getting her, cause I know I can. She's been hitting on me for a long while. The thing is the difference in age. My friends often talk about age-gaps and they think it's okay with like 1-2 years difference. I know they would think I was a wimp if I would go f*ck her. What do you guys think? Should I get a "secret" relationship with her? Is that possible?
What would you do, DJs?
I have a similar problem.

I'd keep it secret, but that's just me. Depends on how old she LOOKS.
 

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If you feel she's worth it then go for it my man, don't let your boys influence you. They will probably be jealous if she looks good and just make fun of you for the age gap but know they are joking.
 

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I'll assume you have low self esteem, are ugly, have no social skills and can drive. You may very well own a truck.

Why not stick to girls your own age?!
She's 15, so obviously she'll f*ck you. She is young and hasn't yet grasped the concept of love, romance, sex, and 18 year old guys who are too lame to go for girls their own age.
Why not get a women who is also Legal?
You're totally taking advantage of this girl, who doesn't know any better.

Be the wise one. Give her advice, and be her friend. I don't understand why you guys think it's all cool to get with these young girls who aren't yet old enough to grasp the concept of sex.

Get your game up, and go for girls your age or older.
When you were 15, and you saw girls your age sleeping with 18 and older guys, what were you thinking?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First of all: It is legal here. Second: She looks like she's 16-17. She's also friends with 18-year-olds. HB8
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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