"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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just a question,

does all this dj stuff work in middle and high school? or is it just for the real world where women are grown up and mature?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some of it doesnt apply but some of it works really well. Its been awhile since ive been in high school so I cant really give you many specifics but just remember that the girls you are dealing with are lacking experience, maturity and oftentimes, self-esteem.
 
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in my experience it's way easier to succeed with girls of those ages (when you are that age)

those same girls will be MUCH more difficult to deal with when you get into college and beyond
 
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PUA/DJ just bases dating on human psychology and social skills, so this applies obviously everywhere.

to me the value of PUA is teaching guys how to relax, be confident and be natural. again, this applies everywhere no matter if in school or college.
 
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It's all about status and popularity at that age. (Actually at my age, it's still about status and popularity in the working world lol. People never leave high school LOL. But that's another thread.)

Thinking WAY back, four types of guys did very well with the girls:

1. The athlete whether it's football, basketball, baseball or any major sport at your school. Bowling doesn't count lol.

2. The good looking guy. He might be tall or built or just have pretty boy looks.

3. The life of the party guy. This guy is the best talker. He ALWAYS has an audience hanging on his every word.

4. The rich kid. He drives the most expensive car in high school.

While you can't control #4, getting involved in a sport will give you #1, get you in shape like #2, and give you a social circle sort of like #3.

What do we preach here to more mature guys? Work out which is related to #1 and #2. Work on your game and/or speaking skills like #3. Work on your career or business, sort of like #4.

So the principles don't really change much.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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