"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Middle and High School

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just a question,

does all this dj stuff work in middle and high school? or is it just for the real world where women are grown up and mature?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some of it doesnt apply but some of it works really well. Its been awhile since ive been in high school so I cant really give you many specifics but just remember that the girls you are dealing with are lacking experience, maturity and oftentimes, self-esteem.
 
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in my experience it's way easier to succeed with girls of those ages (when you are that age)

those same girls will be MUCH more difficult to deal with when you get into college and beyond
 
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PUA/DJ just bases dating on human psychology and social skills, so this applies obviously everywhere.

to me the value of PUA is teaching guys how to relax, be confident and be natural. again, this applies everywhere no matter if in school or college.
 
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It's all about status and popularity at that age. (Actually at my age, it's still about status and popularity in the working world lol. People never leave high school LOL. But that's another thread.)

Thinking WAY back, four types of guys did very well with the girls:

1. The athlete whether it's football, basketball, baseball or any major sport at your school. Bowling doesn't count lol.

2. The good looking guy. He might be tall or built or just have pretty boy looks.

3. The life of the party guy. This guy is the best talker. He ALWAYS has an audience hanging on his every word.

4. The rich kid. He drives the most expensive car in high school.

While you can't control #4, getting involved in a sport will give you #1, get you in shape like #2, and give you a social circle sort of like #3.

What do we preach here to more mature guys? Work out which is related to #1 and #2. Work on your game and/or speaking skills like #3. Work on your career or business, sort of like #4.

So the principles don't really change much.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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