Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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just a question,

does all this dj stuff work in middle and high school? or is it just for the real world where women are grown up and mature?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some of it doesnt apply but some of it works really well. Its been awhile since ive been in high school so I cant really give you many specifics but just remember that the girls you are dealing with are lacking experience, maturity and oftentimes, self-esteem.
 
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in my experience it's way easier to succeed with girls of those ages (when you are that age)

those same girls will be MUCH more difficult to deal with when you get into college and beyond
 
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PUA/DJ just bases dating on human psychology and social skills, so this applies obviously everywhere.

to me the value of PUA is teaching guys how to relax, be confident and be natural. again, this applies everywhere no matter if in school or college.
 
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It's all about status and popularity at that age. (Actually at my age, it's still about status and popularity in the working world lol. People never leave high school LOL. But that's another thread.)

Thinking WAY back, four types of guys did very well with the girls:

1. The athlete whether it's football, basketball, baseball or any major sport at your school. Bowling doesn't count lol.

2. The good looking guy. He might be tall or built or just have pretty boy looks.

3. The life of the party guy. This guy is the best talker. He ALWAYS has an audience hanging on his every word.

4. The rich kid. He drives the most expensive car in high school.

While you can't control #4, getting involved in a sport will give you #1, get you in shape like #2, and give you a social circle sort of like #3.

What do we preach here to more mature guys? Work out which is related to #1 and #2. Work on your game and/or speaking skills like #3. Work on your career or business, sort of like #4.

So the principles don't really change much.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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