"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Met this girl at a club but how long till I contact?

trent81

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Met her at a club tonight. Her cok blocking friends made her leave. She wanted to stay. I'm sure I could have went home if not made out with her if she stayed. As she was leaving I asked her number, she gave it to me. In fact, she repeated her name to me as if I may have forgotten it. This showed me interest somewhat. How long before I call? Call or text? Where to take? What to say?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hover411

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90% chance this will lead to nothing, just based on the club environment.

personally, i feel the standard two/three day hold is bad in these situations. you want to get a hold of them while you are still fresh in their head. try to be cheery and positive and give good vibes through the phone.

if it flows well, try and set up a date ASAP. time is against you in these situations.
 

women haze

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Very true...the club is not the place to pick up girls.
 

Ganondorf

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I agree with Nancy. Who cares really. don't over think this.

first of all, you met her in the club, so you should not wait too long lest you want to be forgotten

also, why over think this at all? if it doesn't work then go to another chick plan and simple
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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