"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Met this girl at a club but how long till I contact?

trent81

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Met her at a club tonight. Her cok blocking friends made her leave. She wanted to stay. I'm sure I could have went home if not made out with her if she stayed. As she was leaving I asked her number, she gave it to me. In fact, she repeated her name to me as if I may have forgotten it. This showed me interest somewhat. How long before I call? Call or text? Where to take? What to say?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hover411

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90% chance this will lead to nothing, just based on the club environment.

personally, i feel the standard two/three day hold is bad in these situations. you want to get a hold of them while you are still fresh in their head. try to be cheery and positive and give good vibes through the phone.

if it flows well, try and set up a date ASAP. time is against you in these situations.
 

women haze

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Very true...the club is not the place to pick up girls.
 

Ganondorf

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I agree with Nancy. Who cares really. don't over think this.

first of all, you met her in the club, so you should not wait too long lest you want to be forgotten

also, why over think this at all? if it doesn't work then go to another chick plan and simple
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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