"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Met this girl at a club but how long till I contact?

trent81

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Met her at a club tonight. Her cok blocking friends made her leave. She wanted to stay. I'm sure I could have went home if not made out with her if she stayed. As she was leaving I asked her number, she gave it to me. In fact, she repeated her name to me as if I may have forgotten it. This showed me interest somewhat. How long before I call? Call or text? Where to take? What to say?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hover411

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90% chance this will lead to nothing, just based on the club environment.

personally, i feel the standard two/three day hold is bad in these situations. you want to get a hold of them while you are still fresh in their head. try to be cheery and positive and give good vibes through the phone.

if it flows well, try and set up a date ASAP. time is against you in these situations.
 

women haze

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Very true...the club is not the place to pick up girls.
 

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I agree with Nancy. Who cares really. don't over think this.

first of all, you met her in the club, so you should not wait too long lest you want to be forgotten

also, why over think this at all? if it doesn't work then go to another chick plan and simple
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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