So by accident I met on a meetup event the flatmate of my main plate, a girl with whom my plate became quite good friends. She went to this meetup without knowing I would be there and vice-versa, but we both knew who the other was because my plate had shown pics of us to each other. The event at this bar was fun, and I chatted a bit with this girl throughout the evening. She´s in a relationship now (albeit a bad one) but the weird part came after. She acknowleged who I was, and asked me not to tell my plate that we had met, explaining that my plate wanted to be the one to introduce us to each other. But why would she want to keep this a secret from a good friend?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Met plate´s friend
- Thread starter Juanto
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Did you ask her why?
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She told him why - because bestie wants to be the one to introduce them.
I'm assuming that flatmate may be worried that a$$hole boyfriend might find out she was out, and that this is the real motivation for asking him to keep quiet. A$$hole boyfriend will think she was out trying to find someone to monkey branch too.
I'm assuming that flatmate may be worried that a$$hole boyfriend might find out she was out, and that this is the real motivation for asking him to keep quiet. A$$hole boyfriend will think she was out trying to find someone to monkey branch too.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Hopefully, wet, blue panties!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Could be, although I dont know said boyfriend