So by accident I met on a meetup event the flatmate of my main plate, a girl with whom my plate became quite good friends. She went to this meetup without knowing I would be there and vice-versa, but we both knew who the other was because my plate had shown pics of us to each other. The event at this bar was fun, and I chatted a bit with this girl throughout the evening. She´s in a relationship now (albeit a bad one) but the weird part came after. She acknowleged who I was, and asked me not to tell my plate that we had met, explaining that my plate wanted to be the one to introduce us to each other. But why would she want to keep this a secret from a good friend?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Met plate´s friend
- Thread starter Juanto
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Did you ask her why?
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She told him why - because bestie wants to be the one to introduce them.
I'm assuming that flatmate may be worried that a$$hole boyfriend might find out she was out, and that this is the real motivation for asking him to keep quiet. A$$hole boyfriend will think she was out trying to find someone to monkey branch too.
I'm assuming that flatmate may be worried that a$$hole boyfriend might find out she was out, and that this is the real motivation for asking him to keep quiet. A$$hole boyfriend will think she was out trying to find someone to monkey branch too.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Hopefully, wet, blue panties!!!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Could be, although I dont know said boyfriend