"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Met her in a weird way...

Onetimeguy

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Short and sweet, I was taking a driving lesson with my driving instructor. He calls his next client to confirm the lesson. The call is on loud speaker and a sexy female voice answers...

Once my lesson is done, I tell my instructor that she has a sweet voice and to tell her I said hello lol.

A few minutes later, I get a call from my instructor, he says "someone wants to say hello" - it's the girl! Apparently he told her what I said.. Me and her had a brief 5 minute conversation and I ask her for her number, she gives it to me.

I have her number now. I have no clue what she looks like but I asked my instructor and he said she's hot.

Do I call her or text her? How do I start a conversation with her leading onto meeting her?

See, told you guys this post was short and sweet lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Deadly_Ripped

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Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day. Let us know how it turns out!
 

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Slick. Offer to teach her how to drive stick.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day.
What's wrong with just calling her, asking her out? And not for something specific, just, let's meet, this time, this place.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day. Let us know how it turns out!
Yeah, that's kinda on the track of what I was thinking..

But was thinking of exchanging a few texts, then pics and ask her out..

Will let you lot know how it does turn out...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hudpes said:
What's wrong with just calling her, asking her out? And not for something specific, just, let's meet, this time, this place.
Nothing wrong with it but my only issue is that my first 2-3 phone convo skills aren't that great. After the first 2-3 convo's, the chicks won't let me off the fricken phone, they become addicted! I guess it's about my comfort level, once I've gained it with someone, I can be myself..
 

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Uh oh..could be a fatty...this may be interesting. Set up a date pronto, and fill us in on what transpires.
 
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