Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Met her in a weird way...

Onetimeguy

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Short and sweet, I was taking a driving lesson with my driving instructor. He calls his next client to confirm the lesson. The call is on loud speaker and a sexy female voice answers...

Once my lesson is done, I tell my instructor that she has a sweet voice and to tell her I said hello lol.

A few minutes later, I get a call from my instructor, he says "someone wants to say hello" - it's the girl! Apparently he told her what I said.. Me and her had a brief 5 minute conversation and I ask her for her number, she gives it to me.

I have her number now. I have no clue what she looks like but I asked my instructor and he said she's hot.

Do I call her or text her? How do I start a conversation with her leading onto meeting her?

See, told you guys this post was short and sweet lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Deadly_Ripped

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Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day. Let us know how it turns out!
 

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Slick. Offer to teach her how to drive stick.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day.
What's wrong with just calling her, asking her out? And not for something specific, just, let's meet, this time, this place.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day. Let us know how it turns out!
Yeah, that's kinda on the track of what I was thinking..

But was thinking of exchanging a few texts, then pics and ask her out..

Will let you lot know how it does turn out...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hudpes said:
What's wrong with just calling her, asking her out? And not for something specific, just, let's meet, this time, this place.
Nothing wrong with it but my only issue is that my first 2-3 phone convo skills aren't that great. After the first 2-3 convo's, the chicks won't let me off the fricken phone, they become addicted! I guess it's about my comfort level, once I've gained it with someone, I can be myself..
 

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Uh oh..could be a fatty...this may be interesting. Set up a date pronto, and fill us in on what transpires.
 
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