"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Met her in a weird way...

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Short and sweet, I was taking a driving lesson with my driving instructor. He calls his next client to confirm the lesson. The call is on loud speaker and a sexy female voice answers...

Once my lesson is done, I tell my instructor that she has a sweet voice and to tell her I said hello lol.

A few minutes later, I get a call from my instructor, he says "someone wants to say hello" - it's the girl! Apparently he told her what I said.. Me and her had a brief 5 minute conversation and I ask her for her number, she gives it to me.

I have her number now. I have no clue what she looks like but I asked my instructor and he said she's hot.

Do I call her or text her? How do I start a conversation with her leading onto meeting her?

See, told you guys this post was short and sweet lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day. Let us know how it turns out!
 

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Slick. Offer to teach her how to drive stick.
 

hudpes

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day.
What's wrong with just calling her, asking her out? And not for something specific, just, let's meet, this time, this place.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
Send her a text in a couple of days mentioning something about her voice like "I miss hearing your voice over a loudspeaker" or something playful like that. As soon as she engages invite her to do something specific on a specific day. Let us know how it turns out!
Yeah, that's kinda on the track of what I was thinking..

But was thinking of exchanging a few texts, then pics and ask her out..

Will let you lot know how it does turn out...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hudpes said:
What's wrong with just calling her, asking her out? And not for something specific, just, let's meet, this time, this place.
Nothing wrong with it but my only issue is that my first 2-3 phone convo skills aren't that great. After the first 2-3 convo's, the chicks won't let me off the fricken phone, they become addicted! I guess it's about my comfort level, once I've gained it with someone, I can be myself..
 

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Uh oh..could be a fatty...this may be interesting. Set up a date pronto, and fill us in on what transpires.
 
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