Met girl & SHE friended ME. I want to ask her out.

[ohiobohio518]

But I don't have her number.

I don't know when I'll see her again -- but I know I will see her within two or three weeks. I just don't know when - it's the nature of my job.

She mentioned she wanted to go to this new restaurant and I didn't act on it. Yeah, my bad. But now I want to take her there.

My options:
1) Ask her number via FB, then call her and ask her out
2) Ask her out via FB
3) Wait until I see her again (and I will see her again). This could be tomorrow or it could be in 3 weeks.

Thoughts please!

 

[Iceberg]

Send her a note on Facebook. "Nice hanging with you. Let's do it again some time. What's your number?"

Then take the conversation off the internet, to the phone, and then in person.

 

[runner83]

Send her a note on Facebook. "Nice hanging with you. Let's do it again some time. What's your number?"

Then take the conversation off the internet, to the phone, and then in person.

Agreed.

Two key points:

1) DO NOT ask her out on Facebook. Get her number, like Iceberg says.

2) Just because she mentioned some new restaurant, don't go along with that. She may just be planning to use you to get a free feed there.

Arrange something else.

 

[ohiobohio518]

Got it. Thanks for the tip!

 

[editdivide]

Great advice.

Remember, difficult women remain DIFFICULT.

It doesn't matter what lines or pick-up techniques you use. It's completely useless.

So, a simply message and her number should be enough. If she doesn't want to comply forget about it, move on.