Met girl from internet tonight and things went pretty bad.. Did I do the right thing?

[Themanthatcan]

Just my 3 cents, but if you pre-established that tennis was on the agenda and she didn't live up to it, after giving her numerous other suggestions, then you did the right thing by leaving.

What you said could have been phrased better, maybe. Something along the lines of:

"Well I drove an hour to have some fun, not sit around and make small talk. If you want to do what we both agreed on, let's do it. If not, I'll see you around."

Then you leave if she's not up for it. Don't say anything or whine. Just leave. Your a man and she's got to respect your time.

What you SHOULDN'T have done, was tell her you made it back ok. If you wouldn't have said anything and waited a few days, there's a chance she might have apologized. But now, you can forget it. Just move on and look at this as a learning experience.

TMTC

 

[Last Man Standing]

Move on kid - only a hor would respond in such a curt manner!!!!!!!!!! Woman do not respond like her - never let a hor control your emotions or actions!!!

 

[isoman2kx]

You ask this board for advice and then you blast each and every post? There's nothing to be said that hasn't been pretty well-said already except for the fact that ya gotta chill out bro. Tripping out over each response saying "BUT I DROVE AN HOUR TO PLAY TENNIS AND SHE DIDN't WANNA HAVE SEX IMMEDIATELY AND WAS PSYCHO" isn't helping your case any. Relax, have some fun with it. Take some of the advice on this board to heart for the next time around.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Just my 3 cents, but if you pre-established that tennis was on the agenda and she didn't live up to it, after giving her numerous other suggestions, then you did the right thing by leaving.

What you said could have been phrased better, maybe. Something along the lines of:

"Well I drove an hour to have some fun, not sit around and make small talk. If you want to do what we both agreed on, let's do it. If not, I'll see you around."

Then you leave if she's not up for it. Don't say anything or whine. Just leave. Your a man and she's got to respect your time.

What you SHOULDN'T have done, was tell her you made it back ok. If you wouldn't have said anything and waited a few days, there's a chance she might have apologized. But now, you can forget it. Just move on and look at this as a learning experience.

TMTC

Thank you sir!


I just called her and left those remarks on her v/m, and she immediatly texted me back "i'm sorry"

wtf does that mean?

is she sincere, or playing games?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Thank you sir!


I just called her and left those remarks on her v/m, and she immediatly texted me back "i'm sorry"

wtf does that mean?

is she sincere, or playing games?

You may have had a chance of figuring her out if you had talked to her initially. This typically happens when a guy forgoes qualifying a woman when they meet in order to engage in some activity.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

You may have had a chance of figuring her out if you had talked to her initially. This typically happens when a guy forgoes qualifying a woman when they meet in order to engage in some activity.

Whenever I call she doesnt answer.

She just texted me the word "im sorry"

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Whenever I call she doesnt answer.

She just texted me the word "im sorry"

Sometimes things just don't fit no matter how much lube you use.

 

[seagull]

Whenever I call she doesnt answer.

She just texted me the word "im sorry"

Anybody else starting to think that this thread is a wind up?