"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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met and got the digits from an old CO worker

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So it's been like 8 years since I saw her...still looks fit so I got the digits.
Wondering if it makes a difference if I text or call her right now since I'm bored or wait till the weekend?

I know there's some unspoken rule of thumb...but let's hear it again
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The "rules of thumb" are outdated and need revising.
It use to be wait a while and then hit her ..
Now with social media and orbiters being at an all time high, you strike while the iron is hot.
**unless its a girl you see on a regular basis via social circle/school, then it's no need to be as aggressive
 
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