"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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met and got the digits from an old CO worker

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So it's been like 8 years since I saw her...still looks fit so I got the digits.
Wondering if it makes a difference if I text or call her right now since I'm bored or wait till the weekend?

I know there's some unspoken rule of thumb...but let's hear it again
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The "rules of thumb" are outdated and need revising.
It use to be wait a while and then hit her ..
Now with social media and orbiters being at an all time high, you strike while the iron is hot.
**unless its a girl you see on a regular basis via social circle/school, then it's no need to be as aggressive
 
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