Rhoto said:
How can you love some one you've never seen naked? Let alone met 4 times in person?
Have you ever heard the term Love is Blind? It truely is. When you really fall in love, imperfections go out the window. She could have all kinds of quirks about her body when the clothes come off.. but it probably won't matter to him. The trick is to figure out if it's infatuation or love that is driving your emotions because that is sometimes hard to tell. It sounds like she at least feels the same way as he does. I say don't rush things and just see what develops... after 4 dates it's hard to think that you could be in love, but if you're talking to her a lot on the phone... that can in part replace face time.
This girl I went out with Saturday... I really like her and can't wait to see her again. But, I know that most of what I'm feeling now is the excitement of meeting a new person... so I keep my mind in check. Even though the signs point to a good LTR potential... time is the only indicator that tells the outcome.
windust505 said:
Question: Did I pass a test by her saying I love you too? I don't think seeing her naked should make a difference. We have a great chemistry.
Don't think of it as a test, just realize that she's at least in the vicinity of the page you are on... women don't usually say I love you without meaning unless perhaps they're backed into a corner (ie telling her: if you don't love me we're breaking up). When one person says this to the other, they have to take a step back and examine their feelings... usually the other wasn't quite ready to say it, but if you are close enough to that time then they will take a chance and say it back. Just be thankful she reciprocated.
