"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Met a woman I dig--I'll try not to blow it

Scought

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Haha,

what's up everyone?

I have no problem meeting women. It happens all the time, I date several at a time, and have a few I can call late at night. :box:

The rub is that I find this Women boring and really uninteresting most of the time. That's why it works for me. I act aloof, don't call for DAYS, say whats on my mind, blunt, to the point, etc. :trouble:

However, last night I had a date with a woman I wish I could meet in 5 years. She seems awesome....seems.......

She loves sports, beer, the same music as me, is attractive and down to earth. :rockon:

I have to keep playing the game as I know how. However, I also don't want to mess this up. I usually don't mind messing up with other women because it actually makes life a bit simpler when you are balancing less women.

In this case, I want to get to know her and I want it to have a more serious tone than my other dates with women. I want their to be some potential--whether it happens or not.

So, gentlemen, please help remind me to keep my cool. And please provide any tips you have used that worked in making a first date, turn into series of dates......:rock:

I know how to do the hook-up, casual dating thing....the more serious ones, no so much.
Not necessarily looking for an LTR, but not opposed to seeing where this goes.

It's refreshing to actually dig a girl.....it's rare....and I like it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Max Power

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To avoid oneitis don't stop looking for other girls. I know you like this girl but have you sealed the deal yet? Even if you do seal the deal keep trying to get numbers so you always have a back up and never spend more than 2 or 3 nights a week with this girl.
 

bachelor

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I've met plenty of girls I wanted to be a little bit more serious with because they seemed cooler than most other girls I knew. I would play it cool for the first few weeks but set up a few lunch and casual movie dates. Depending on how the dates go will give u a good indication if she's worth taking a step forward with.
 
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