"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Met a woman I dig--I'll try not to blow it

Scought

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Haha,

what's up everyone?

I have no problem meeting women. It happens all the time, I date several at a time, and have a few I can call late at night. :box:

The rub is that I find this Women boring and really uninteresting most of the time. That's why it works for me. I act aloof, don't call for DAYS, say whats on my mind, blunt, to the point, etc. :trouble:

However, last night I had a date with a woman I wish I could meet in 5 years. She seems awesome....seems.......

She loves sports, beer, the same music as me, is attractive and down to earth. :rockon:

I have to keep playing the game as I know how. However, I also don't want to mess this up. I usually don't mind messing up with other women because it actually makes life a bit simpler when you are balancing less women.

In this case, I want to get to know her and I want it to have a more serious tone than my other dates with women. I want their to be some potential--whether it happens or not.

So, gentlemen, please help remind me to keep my cool. And please provide any tips you have used that worked in making a first date, turn into series of dates......:rock:

I know how to do the hook-up, casual dating thing....the more serious ones, no so much.
Not necessarily looking for an LTR, but not opposed to seeing where this goes.

It's refreshing to actually dig a girl.....it's rare....and I like it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Max Power

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To avoid oneitis don't stop looking for other girls. I know you like this girl but have you sealed the deal yet? Even if you do seal the deal keep trying to get numbers so you always have a back up and never spend more than 2 or 3 nights a week with this girl.
 

bachelor

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I've met plenty of girls I wanted to be a little bit more serious with because they seemed cooler than most other girls I knew. I would play it cool for the first few weeks but set up a few lunch and casual movie dates. Depending on how the dates go will give u a good indication if she's worth taking a step forward with.
 
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