"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Met a woman I dig--I'll try not to blow it

Scought

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Haha,

what's up everyone?

I have no problem meeting women. It happens all the time, I date several at a time, and have a few I can call late at night. :box:

The rub is that I find this Women boring and really uninteresting most of the time. That's why it works for me. I act aloof, don't call for DAYS, say whats on my mind, blunt, to the point, etc. :trouble:

However, last night I had a date with a woman I wish I could meet in 5 years. She seems awesome....seems.......

She loves sports, beer, the same music as me, is attractive and down to earth. :rockon:

I have to keep playing the game as I know how. However, I also don't want to mess this up. I usually don't mind messing up with other women because it actually makes life a bit simpler when you are balancing less women.

In this case, I want to get to know her and I want it to have a more serious tone than my other dates with women. I want their to be some potential--whether it happens or not.

So, gentlemen, please help remind me to keep my cool. And please provide any tips you have used that worked in making a first date, turn into series of dates......:rock:

I know how to do the hook-up, casual dating thing....the more serious ones, no so much.
Not necessarily looking for an LTR, but not opposed to seeing where this goes.

It's refreshing to actually dig a girl.....it's rare....and I like it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Max Power

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To avoid oneitis don't stop looking for other girls. I know you like this girl but have you sealed the deal yet? Even if you do seal the deal keep trying to get numbers so you always have a back up and never spend more than 2 or 3 nights a week with this girl.
 

bachelor

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I've met plenty of girls I wanted to be a little bit more serious with because they seemed cooler than most other girls I knew. I would play it cool for the first few weeks but set up a few lunch and casual movie dates. Depending on how the dates go will give u a good indication if she's worth taking a step forward with.
 
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