"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Met a new one today.

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Green eyes. She lives close to my family back home, here for grad school. I think that I'm already fallin for her. She had a great smile, and was very open. She jumped with excitement when I told her what I do for a living.

She just Looks like my family, like she'd fit right in with my lineage. The main thing is how I know she was checking me out, then I approached, and she gave me the "openness" I needed to get to know her better.

I hope to see her next week. The logistics of a LTR with this one would be great because her family is close to mine, err for Thanksgiving and such. I just saw her as someone I could love.

I could be wrong.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there's a typo in your title.

it should read, "met a new one-ITIS today"
 

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You think you're already falling for her? Your thoughts are seeds to your own destruction. Should you not be rejected, you will be manipulated.
 

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(JJ) said:
there's a typo in your title.

it should read, "met a new one-ITIS today"
:crackup:


PM, did you tell her you make Poonanies for a living, and that's when she jumped with excitement?
 

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lol poonani's posts get more and more funny. Is it actually poonani writing this or is someone hacking his account
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gangster Of Love said:
(JJ) said:
there's a typo in your title.

it should read, "met a new one-ITIS today"
:crackup:


PM, did you tell her you make Poonanies for a living, and that's when she jumped with excitement?
I can already tell this is going to be one interesting thread.... ;)

But in all seriousness Poonani Maker, What exactly is it you do that makes all the beautiful women jump with excitement?
 

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OTB said:
But in all seriousness Poonani Maker, What exactly is it you do that makes all the beautiful women jump with excitement?
I heard it has something to do with his nickname "littleshaft"
 

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Wiesman44 said:
I heard it has something to do with his nickname "littleshaft"
Holy Sh1t bro, are you saying that our man PoonaniMaker is in the "adult entertainment" industry???

If this is all true, that's pretty fvkcin awesome... - More props to him! :D
 

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Heyyyyyyy, hold your horses man. you are already getting married having kids with her moving in with her and coming back for visits on holidays together. YOU JUST MET HER TODAYYYYYYY.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know, I know. I don't even own a house! Guys, especially in THIS economy, life is Hard. My credit rating ain't too hot because I've always paid cash for everything. I don't understand where all these people get all their money from.

I guess I just need to keep putting my head down and rolling that stone uphill, because money's not gonna just fall in my lap. I Hate the credit society or "system" we have today here in America. Why do I have to charge for stuff in order to be "worthy?"

Back to the girl. I'll most likely see her again this weekend. I'm really in no position to get married, Unless her family can provide a Large dowry.

I pray every day that I continue being as successful as I am to date. I've performed (with a few quirks here and there) admirably for quite some time.

It saddens me to see rich people do nothing while I have to work Very hard though.
 
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