"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Met a new one today.

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Green eyes. She lives close to my family back home, here for grad school. I think that I'm already fallin for her. She had a great smile, and was very open. She jumped with excitement when I told her what I do for a living.

She just Looks like my family, like she'd fit right in with my lineage. The main thing is how I know she was checking me out, then I approached, and she gave me the "openness" I needed to get to know her better.

I hope to see her next week. The logistics of a LTR with this one would be great because her family is close to mine, err for Thanksgiving and such. I just saw her as someone I could love.

I could be wrong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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there's a typo in your title.

it should read, "met a new one-ITIS today"
 

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You think you're already falling for her? Your thoughts are seeds to your own destruction. Should you not be rejected, you will be manipulated.
 

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(JJ) said:
there's a typo in your title.

it should read, "met a new one-ITIS today"
:crackup:


PM, did you tell her you make Poonanies for a living, and that's when she jumped with excitement?
 

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lol poonani's posts get more and more funny. Is it actually poonani writing this or is someone hacking his account
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gangster Of Love said:
(JJ) said:
there's a typo in your title.

it should read, "met a new one-ITIS today"
:crackup:


PM, did you tell her you make Poonanies for a living, and that's when she jumped with excitement?
I can already tell this is going to be one interesting thread.... ;)

But in all seriousness Poonani Maker, What exactly is it you do that makes all the beautiful women jump with excitement?
 

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OTB said:
But in all seriousness Poonani Maker, What exactly is it you do that makes all the beautiful women jump with excitement?
I heard it has something to do with his nickname "littleshaft"
 

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Wiesman44 said:
I heard it has something to do with his nickname "littleshaft"
Holy Sh1t bro, are you saying that our man PoonaniMaker is in the "adult entertainment" industry???

If this is all true, that's pretty fvkcin awesome... - More props to him! :D
 

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Heyyyyyyy, hold your horses man. you are already getting married having kids with her moving in with her and coming back for visits on holidays together. YOU JUST MET HER TODAYYYYYYY.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know, I know. I don't even own a house! Guys, especially in THIS economy, life is Hard. My credit rating ain't too hot because I've always paid cash for everything. I don't understand where all these people get all their money from.

I guess I just need to keep putting my head down and rolling that stone uphill, because money's not gonna just fall in my lap. I Hate the credit society or "system" we have today here in America. Why do I have to charge for stuff in order to be "worthy?"

Back to the girl. I'll most likely see her again this weekend. I'm really in no position to get married, Unless her family can provide a Large dowry.

I pray every day that I continue being as successful as I am to date. I've performed (with a few quirks here and there) admirably for quite some time.

It saddens me to see rich people do nothing while I have to work Very hard though.
 
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