It was you and her alone after her friend left. No obstacles left to you getting your d1ck wet.
Then you went along with her to a frat party. Where there are now a whole lot of obstacles you need to deal with to you getting laid. And even if you'd end up staying there with her, instead of leaving like you did, no guarantee she would still be down to fvck after. Too tired. Maybe another night aka never.
No shame. I've made this mistake in the past countless times, under the influence of alcohol (read: drunk). Not thinking clearly about the consequences of my actions.
Gotcha, I figured her rejecting that advance twice over and waiting for the Uber somewhere that her sorority has cameras set up, noting "they see everything" was enough of a deterrent, enough of a sign that she might not actually be that interested and the low body count might've been true. That, plus the fact the conversation on the way to her place was about her complaining about some other chick had me thinking she wasn't that interested in "us".
Either way, in the future, if I hear some sh** like that again, I'll push the envelope a bit further.
With all of that experience you let a woman to make plans? Like hey let me know if you want company, you know I'll be here waiting for you. Instead of taking the lead, create something to allow s3x "to happen" instead of overtly letting her know that you wanna fvck her Wednesday night if she wants LOL
Yeah, because why would I work backwards if we've already f***ed? She's graduating and moving up to Philly in like a week, I'm not trying to date her. I got 2 or 3 girls on something of a "rotation" with another 1 or 2 in the background if I want to revisit them...
That being said, I like new p****, as evidenced by the notch count, so I'd be happy to revisit this chick since we had a good time Friday. I gave her a date (Wednesday), a time (that night), and a location (her place). She knows what it is, she either wants it or she doesn't. Her response of "another night" might be BS, but I'll go about my business and maybe hit her up while I'm out at the bars this weekend and see if she wants company THAT night.
It's not that I'm putting the power in her hands, I simply don't care enough to try to win her over when I A. Already did and B. Have other girls I don't need to. She's either buying what I'm selling, or she isn't.