Hey.. I have a screwed up situation here. I became really good friends with this girl this year and we're basically best friends. Over the past few months I've developed feelings for her and I think I'm getting these feelings because she's show TONS of interest in me as more than a friend. Thing is she has a bf.. they'll break up soon, all they do is fight but I don't know what to do. I think if I told her I had feelings with her she'd seriously rethink her current relationship. I don't know if I should tell her I have feelings for her or wait for her and her BF to breakup. I'm getting serious one-itis with this girl but I can't stop it. I haven't seen her in a while because I've been on vacation and all I could think of on the trip was her. Playas... what the hell should I do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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