Hey.. I have a screwed up situation here. I became really good friends with this girl this year and we're basically best friends. Over the past few months I've developed feelings for her and I think I'm getting these feelings because she's show TONS of interest in me as more than a friend. Thing is she has a bf.. they'll break up soon, all they do is fight but I don't know what to do. I think if I told her I had feelings with her she'd seriously rethink her current relationship. I don't know if I should tell her I have feelings for her or wait for her and her BF to breakup. I'm getting serious one-itis with this girl but I can't stop it. I haven't seen her in a while because I've been on vacation and all I could think of on the trip was her. Playas... what the hell should I do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
messed up situation
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