Hey.. I have a screwed up situation here. I became really good friends with this girl this year and we're basically best friends. Over the past few months I've developed feelings for her and I think I'm getting these feelings because she's show TONS of interest in me as more than a friend. Thing is she has a bf.. they'll break up soon, all they do is fight but I don't know what to do. I think if I told her I had feelings with her she'd seriously rethink her current relationship. I don't know if I should tell her I have feelings for her or wait for her and her BF to breakup. I'm getting serious one-itis with this girl but I can't stop it. I haven't seen her in a while because I've been on vacation and all I could think of on the trip was her. Playas... what the hell should I do?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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