Okay, so I met this girl over the summer. Myself and my friend hung out with her and her friend a few times. Then one night both girls came over my house to sleep over (my parents wer out for the night) and so I got with the girls friend (lets call her girl B) while my friend got with the girl I met (girl A). So we never really followed up with these girls until recently. Now girl A says she wants me and her to hookup but my friend said that he wouldn't talk to me ever again if I got with her. So I was like okay I won't. But really recently I'm starting to like this girl more and more and I'm trying to hint this to my friend and hes softening up slowly but surely. But I don't want to hurt him so I don't really know what to do. Help me here.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Messed up situation here...
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