Okay, so I met this girl over the summer. Myself and my friend hung out with her and her friend a few times. Then one night both girls came over my house to sleep over (my parents wer out for the night) and so I got with the girls friend (lets call her girl B) while my friend got with the girl I met (girl A). So we never really followed up with these girls until recently. Now girl A says she wants me and her to hookup but my friend said that he wouldn't talk to me ever again if I got with her. So I was like okay I won't. But really recently I'm starting to like this girl more and more and I'm trying to hint this to my friend and hes softening up slowly but surely. But I don't want to hurt him so I don't really know what to do. Help me here.
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Messed up situation here...
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