“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Messed up situation here...

toddC

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Okay, so I met this girl over the summer. Myself and my friend hung out with her and her friend a few times. Then one night both girls came over my house to sleep over (my parents wer out for the night) and so I got with the girls friend (lets call her girl B) while my friend got with the girl I met (girl A). So we never really followed up with these girls until recently. Now girl A says she wants me and her to hookup but my friend said that he wouldn't talk to me ever again if I got with her. So I was like okay I won't. But really recently I'm starting to like this girl more and more and I'm trying to hint this to my friend and hes softening up slowly but surely. But I don't want to hurt him so I don't really know what to do. Help me here.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

LikRetsam

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If he wanted her, he would have stayed in touch with her.

She's not his. She's fair game to me. May the best man win.
 

toddC

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Yes, thats exactly what I told him but he still said he'd be pissed if I got with her. To be honest as of now I think I'm just going to go for it. I'm sure he'd get over it if I did get with her.
 
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