Today around noon, I wuz gettin somethin to drink and I see this HB right in front of me, I had more than a minute to say somethin but I just couldn't get anythin out of my mouth. You could say I was nervous or something, now lookin back I messed up badly. The problem is that I have so many limiting beliefs ingrained in me by my parents. They tell me that if I approach a woman she'll think im desparate, that in order to get a woman I must have good looks and lots of money. Whats the best way to get rid of the nervoussness inside u?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Messed up really bad today
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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Don Juan
Well I had the same problem when I was younger, couldn't open my mouth, when I did never said the right things..and the list goes on and on. Being Nervous is a natural thing and you can't do away with it, you sure can control it. Just talk man, say a "What' up?" it won't hurt, she might say something back she might not..take the chance, your not going to lose anything..if she doesn't want to be in your kingdom, so be it...there are plenty of others waiting to join.
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Senior Don Juan
Simple, go talk to ten other women. Depending on where you are skill-wise, you could talk to uglies, or HBs, or just anybody who walks by. If you have trouble with what to say, try some of the canned openers found at fastseduction.com.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Don Juan
Well the thing is this...pick up lines don't work. The thing that works for me is a simple HELLO..or WHAT'S UP. Keep it simple. Since you say you can keep a conversation going, I think that would be the best start. Try it, it works .. even if their not interested at first.
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Don Juan
Oh yeah and read the articles
