Today around noon, I wuz gettin somethin to drink and I see this HB right in front of me, I had more than a minute to say somethin but I just couldn't get anythin out of my mouth. You could say I was nervous or something, now lookin back I messed up badly. The problem is that I have so many limiting beliefs ingrained in me by my parents. They tell me that if I approach a woman she'll think im desparate, that in order to get a woman I must have good looks and lots of money. Whats the best way to get rid of the nervoussness inside u?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Messed up really bad today
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
Well I had the same problem when I was younger, couldn't open my mouth, when I did never said the right things..and the list goes on and on. Being Nervous is a natural thing and you can't do away with it, you sure can control it. Just talk man, say a "What' up?" it won't hurt, she might say something back she might not..take the chance, your not going to lose anything..if she doesn't want to be in your kingdom, so be it...there are plenty of others waiting to join.
abcd_z
Senior Don Juan
Simple, go talk to ten other women. Depending on where you are skill-wise, you could talk to uglies, or HBs, or just anybody who walks by. If you have trouble with what to say, try some of the canned openers found at fastseduction.com.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
Well the thing is this...pick up lines don't work. The thing that works for me is a simple HELLO..or WHAT'S UP. Keep it simple. Since you say you can keep a conversation going, I think that would be the best start. Try it, it works .. even if their not interested at first.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
Oh yeah and read the articles
