Today around noon, I wuz gettin somethin to drink and I see this HB right in front of me, I had more than a minute to say somethin but I just couldn't get anythin out of my mouth. You could say I was nervous or something, now lookin back I messed up badly. The problem is that I have so many limiting beliefs ingrained in me by my parents. They tell me that if I approach a woman she'll think im desparate, that in order to get a woman I must have good looks and lots of money. Whats the best way to get rid of the nervoussness inside u?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Messed up really bad today
- Thread starter LADawg49
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Don Juan
Well I had the same problem when I was younger, couldn't open my mouth, when I did never said the right things..and the list goes on and on. Being Nervous is a natural thing and you can't do away with it, you sure can control it. Just talk man, say a "What' up?" it won't hurt, she might say something back she might not..take the chance, your not going to lose anything..if she doesn't want to be in your kingdom, so be it...there are plenty of others waiting to join.
abcd_z
Senior Don Juan
Simple, go talk to ten other women. Depending on where you are skill-wise, you could talk to uglies, or HBs, or just anybody who walks by. If you have trouble with what to say, try some of the canned openers found at fastseduction.com.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Don Juan
Well the thing is this...pick up lines don't work. The thing that works for me is a simple HELLO..or WHAT'S UP. Keep it simple. Since you say you can keep a conversation going, I think that would be the best start. Try it, it works .. even if their not interested at first.
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Don Juan
Oh yeah and read the articles
