Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
There always is the possibility of getting her back. But it starts by working on yourself and forgetting about her for a while. If and when you begin talking with her again it should be from a very different place then when you last talked to her.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When two people meet, it don't matter boy or a girl, man or a man friends, or customer and business. A certain rapport forms. You both view each other a certain way. That is rock solid and can not be changed. Even if the motherfcker changes, that other person still views him that same way. It's never worth getting her back.
Wtf??! Never do this haha never cuss her out and call her a B...were you being serious ?? Getting upset or irate is you being a weak a$$ b1tch. Be firm, calm, masculine, Control your emotions and control the outcome.
That only matters if you care about keeping her around. In OP case I could care less. If I tell a woman off I'm done with her. I'd tell off a man or woman who needs to be told off. I don't discriminate
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I stand by my first comment
Idc. You quoted me so I responded. Tf lol