Messed it up completely

[Bailey Sparks]

Been with a girl 6 months. Played it well for the most part. Passed the **** tests. Out yesterday and she's checking out another guy repeatedly. I asked (miffed) whether she knew him. She asked why and I said (a bit narky) just thought she may-. First sign I've shown jealously but way too beta. She's still into me but don't actually think it was a **** test. Messed up this time. Any advice on best way to salvage, show value, or just tips on how to handle in future?

 

[sylvester the cat]

how would you react if your little sister was checking a guy out? Theres your answer.

Perhaps offer to leave the room to give her more time to ogle the man in question. You could tell her to call you when she's finished.

 

[LMFAO]

I was out shopping a few months back in the Nike store in Manhattan and a girl who was with her boyfriend was checking me out. He told her WTF do you think you're doing, she apologised on the spot. Sometimes it's best to treat her like a little child.

 

[RangerMIke]

I was out shopping a few months back in the Nike store in Manhattan and a girl who was with her boyfriend was checking me out. He told her WTF do you think you're doing, she apologised on the spot. Sometimes it's best to treat her like a little child.

No it's not.... man this is why this forum is here:

What she says: "I'm sorry (for checking out that dude).

What she is thinking: "WTF does this guy think... he owns my ass? He must not be very sure of himself.. calling me out like that... the jack@ss. Hmmm maybe he has reason to be concerned.... maybe the guy I was checking out IS BETTER. Man has my attraction level dropped. I wish a real man would come and take me away from this weak @ass man."

He might have gotten an apology on the spot, and won the battle, but this idiot is losing the war.

A better response would have been:

Boyfriend: "So... you like that guy... how about a walk over and ask him if he want a Chinese finger trap MMF three way? Of course if I do, you'll have to get one of your friends to come over for a FFM three way!!!"

That's how a fvcking REAL man responds to that, delivered in a funny, charming, humorous way.

I can steal women from guys like this all fvcking day.

 

[marmel75]

I would have asked if she wanted me to try and get his number for her

 

[Trump]

Been with a girl 6 months. Played it well for the most part. Passed the **** tests. Out yesterday and she's checking out another guy repeatedly. I asked (miffed) whether she knew him. She asked why and I said (a bit narky) just thought she may-. First sign I've shown jealously but way too beta. She's still into me but don't actually think it was a **** test. Messed up this time. Any advice on best way to salvage, show value, or just tips on how to handle in future?

I'd be like "You should go ask him out, then I don't have to take you out and entertain you anymore."

Come on dude, take it easy. Like you wouldn't be checking out a hot girl all day if your girlfriend was with you. As long as she's not distracted from the conversation or getting his number in front of you, its all good.