Messaging after date?

[old_skoolr]

So say you just had a date with a girl, gone for coffees, talked abit, maybe hooked up abit, dropped her off home. When do u rekon the best time to msg her afterwards is, the next day?? couple days later?? Been thinking about it, and thats probably the aspect of my game that needs working on, so I thought Id ask my fellow DJ what there views on it are.

 

[DonJuanabe]

Shouldn't she be the one texting a thank you to you? Otherwise I'd wait until the third day and ask her out without even mentioning the prior date. Always focus forward, never backward.

 

[MisterD]

yeah, i must say--anytime i've told the girl i had a good time i either got no reply or a lukewarm, late response.

let her text you about the date. if she doesn't, don't freak out. if you think it went well ask her out on another date

 

[Bible_Belt]

let her text you about the date. if she doesn't, don't freak out. if you think it went well ask her out on another date

I agree.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

If you actually have an interesting life, you wouldn't need to worry about stuff like this subject. It is so high school. :crackup:

1) work out
2) pick a hobby you really like, preferably one that you can make money from
3) job hunt
4) meet new people, not just girls
5) spin like a DJ

Follow #1-5 and you won't even need to think about that question. You'll be too busy and/or having fun.

 

[JohnChops]

If you actually have an interesting life, you wouldn't need to worry about stuff like this subject. It is so high school. :crackup:

1) work out
2) pick a hobby you really like, preferably one that you can make money from
3) job hunt
4) meet new people, not just girls
5) spin like a DJ

Follow #1-5 and you won't even need to think about that question. You'll be too busy and/or having fun.

stupid question but what is spin like a dj.... talk to more women? Is that what this metaphor is lol . Any lsit of good hobbies that make you money