"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Messaging after date?

old_skoolr

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So say you just had a date with a girl, gone for coffees, talked abit, maybe hooked up abit, dropped her off home. When do u rekon the best time to msg her afterwards is, the next day?? couple days later?? Been thinking about it, and thats probably the aspect of my game that needs working on, so I thought Id ask my fellow DJ what there views on it are.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DonJuanabe

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Shouldn't she be the one texting a thank you to you? Otherwise I'd wait until the third day and ask her out without even mentioning the prior date. Always focus forward, never backward.
 

MisterD

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yeah, i must say--anytime i've told the girl i had a good time i either got no reply or a lukewarm, late response.

let her text you about the date. if she doesn't, don't freak out. if you think it went well ask her out on another date
 

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let her text you about the date. if she doesn't, don't freak out. if you think it went well ask her out on another date

I agree.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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If you actually have an interesting life, you wouldn't need to worry about stuff like this subject. It is so high school. :crackup:

1) work out
2) pick a hobby you really like, preferably one that you can make money from
3) job hunt
4) meet new people, not just girls
5) spin like a DJ

Follow #1-5 and you won't even need to think about that question. You'll be too busy and/or having fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JohnChops

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
If you actually have an interesting life, you wouldn't need to worry about stuff like this subject. It is so high school. :crackup:

1) work out
2) pick a hobby you really like, preferably one that you can make money from
3) job hunt
4) meet new people, not just girls
5) spin like a DJ

Follow #1-5 and you won't even need to think about that question. You'll be too busy and/or having fun.

stupid question but what is spin like a dj.... talk to more women? Is that what this metaphor is lol . Any lsit of good hobbies that make you money :p
 
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