"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Messaged this girl on MySpace

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I have a music myspace page which I'm using to promote my music.

I was browing through profiles and came across a cute 20 year old in my area. She mentions in her profile that she's the conservative type and just broke up with her boyfriend is just looking to meet some people.

We've messaged back and forth a few times and it's just short conversation. I only use myspace for music but I made an exception to message this one.

Would you say girls are using myspace to meet people or more like to feed their ego nowadays?

I don't know if the fact she mentions she recently became single makes any difference.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mazeman11 said:
I don't know if the fact she mentions she recently became single makes any difference.
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If she mentioned that to you in message, that's a huge IOI. Her intentions may just be to hang out with guys because they're easy friends to rope in with a pair of tits, but she'll have no idea what hit her when you lay down the game on your first meeting.
 
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hi2u said:
If she mentioned that to you in message, that's a huge IOI. Her intentions may just be to hang out with guys because they're easy friends to rope in with a pair of tits, but she'll have no idea what hit her when you lay down the game on your first meeting.
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Normally it's not a good sign when a girl mentions her bf status like that.
 
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This chick could be anybody...

And it's the stereotypical story...

If she has 'single' in her profile that's all you need to know... as it is with any girl you meet out... she's got friends who can care about her past situations and her emotional state... all you need to know is at that point in time she ain't attached to no-one
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ashley Chuckles said:
This chick could be anybody...

And it's the stereotypical story...

If she has 'single' in her profile that's all you need to know... as it is with any girl you meet out... she's got friends who can care about her past situations and her emotional state... all you need to know is at that point in time she ain't attached to no-one
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Good point.
 
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