"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Messaged this girl on MySpace

Mazeman11

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I have a music myspace page which I'm using to promote my music.

I was browing through profiles and came across a cute 20 year old in my area. She mentions in her profile that she's the conservative type and just broke up with her boyfriend is just looking to meet some people.

We've messaged back and forth a few times and it's just short conversation. I only use myspace for music but I made an exception to message this one.

Would you say girls are using myspace to meet people or more like to feed their ego nowadays?

I don't know if the fact she mentions she recently became single makes any difference.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mazeman11 said:
I don't know if the fact she mentions she recently became single makes any difference.
If she mentioned that to you in message, that's a huge IOI. Her intentions may just be to hang out with guys because they're easy friends to rope in with a pair of tits, but she'll have no idea what hit her when you lay down the game on your first meeting.
 

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hi2u said:
If she mentioned that to you in message, that's a huge IOI. Her intentions may just be to hang out with guys because they're easy friends to rope in with a pair of tits, but she'll have no idea what hit her when you lay down the game on your first meeting.

Normally it's not a good sign when a girl mentions her bf status like that.
 

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This chick could be anybody...

And it's the stereotypical story...

If she has 'single' in her profile that's all you need to know... as it is with any girl you meet out... she's got friends who can care about her past situations and her emotional state... all you need to know is at that point in time she ain't attached to no-one
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ashley Chuckles said:
This chick could be anybody...

And it's the stereotypical story...

If she has 'single' in her profile that's all you need to know... as it is with any girl you meet out... she's got friends who can care about her past situations and her emotional state... all you need to know is at that point in time she ain't attached to no-one

Good point.
 
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