"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Messaged this girl on MySpace

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I have a music myspace page which I'm using to promote my music.

I was browing through profiles and came across a cute 20 year old in my area. She mentions in her profile that she's the conservative type and just broke up with her boyfriend is just looking to meet some people.

We've messaged back and forth a few times and it's just short conversation. I only use myspace for music but I made an exception to message this one.

Would you say girls are using myspace to meet people or more like to feed their ego nowadays?

I don't know if the fact she mentions she recently became single makes any difference.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mazeman11 said:
I don't know if the fact she mentions she recently became single makes any difference.
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If she mentioned that to you in message, that's a huge IOI. Her intentions may just be to hang out with guys because they're easy friends to rope in with a pair of tits, but she'll have no idea what hit her when you lay down the game on your first meeting.
 
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hi2u said:
If she mentioned that to you in message, that's a huge IOI. Her intentions may just be to hang out with guys because they're easy friends to rope in with a pair of tits, but she'll have no idea what hit her when you lay down the game on your first meeting.
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Normally it's not a good sign when a girl mentions her bf status like that.
 
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This chick could be anybody...

And it's the stereotypical story...

If she has 'single' in her profile that's all you need to know... as it is with any girl you meet out... she's got friends who can care about her past situations and her emotional state... all you need to know is at that point in time she ain't attached to no-one
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ashley Chuckles said:
This chick could be anybody...

And it's the stereotypical story...

If she has 'single' in her profile that's all you need to know... as it is with any girl you meet out... she's got friends who can care about her past situations and her emotional state... all you need to know is at that point in time she ain't attached to no-one
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Good point.
 
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