"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Message to Guys who are Unsuccessful with Women

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whether you are nerdy, geeky, creepy, virgin, AFC, loser, ect, whatever you feel you are or what you have been called, you NEED TO ACCEPT IT AS A FACT

i was the worst everything when i was 17, and at the time, my #1 mistake was not accepting that i was a failure.........when i opened my eyes and realized that i am a failure in the dating world, that is when my best changes happened

i now speak down to all of you as a CERTIFIED PLAYER/DON JUAN

i do speak down to you, its what u deserve for being the failures that you are.........i know u like having your hand help by the "nice don juans" on here, but i will tell u, from personal experience, u will NEVER improve unless you are told straight up that you are at fault for your own failure

i dont want to hear the ones that i am addressing tell me that im bragging, that im flaming, that im this or that, cuz this is not even about ME, its about YOU

FACT: you are a joke when it comes to having women in your life, and I am a KING, so i WILL look down on you, but as a good king, i want to help you all as much as possible

FACT: all unsuccessful men have to listen to successful men, without a single doubt.........it needs to be "yes sir" and that is it, AN UNSUCCESSFUL MAN CANNOT QUESTION A MAN WHO HAS GOOD SUCCESS

FACT: all EXCUSES need to stop now........i dont care if u think shes a slut, i dont care if u think shes an airhead, i dont care if shes not intellectual enough for u...............FVCK HER BRAINS OUT BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT SHE IS THERE FOR, IN YOUR CASE - you are an unsuccessful guy with women, u are to make NO excuses, and you are to get success first, talk later


SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER

SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER

SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER

SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER

SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER


you, whoever you are, as an usuccessful man, show RESPECT to the man who knows what he is doing and trying to help you.......dont show any disobedience to a man who is sharing his well-practiced successful knowledge with you and trying to anonymously help you get ahead in life when it comes to getting women


take ALL advice given to you, and apply it----dont even take the time to analyze it or question it, because u are not allowed to!!!!!!!! JUST APPLY IT AND REPORT BACK WITH RESULTS





I think i have seen dozens of guys here stuck in their own AFCness because they are too stubborn to listen to advice of seasoned don juans, the above is for all of them

if you flame me, you'll prove yourself to be hateful chump that you are

good day to all ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crazy Asian

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dude i agree.
i used to think i was this huge player when i really wasn't.
it wasn't until that i realized the situation i was really in that i started making improvements.

also, i think this site is 50% bullsh1t.
that other 50% is gold.
 

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positivity_injection said:
whether you are nerdy, geeky, creepy, virgin, AFC, loser, ect, whatever you feel you are or what you have been called, you NEED TO ACCEPT IT AS A FACT
Don't EVER let anyone define you. If that's what you want to do, then YOU are a failure.

What people really should do is accept themselves totally. Once you accept yourself, you can actually fall in love with yourself. Don't ever let someone tell you who you are, what you can do, and take full responsibility for yourself and all your decisions. Every single decision!

Everyone should tell themselves on a daily basis that they accept themselves.

Do not ever take what anyone tells you and accept it as truth and fact. You define yourself. If you live life listening to what people say you are, you'll be changing into someone new on a daily basis. Once you've accepted yourself, you won't worry about whether someone else accepts you because it won't matter because you already have.

Be a strong and capable force to be reckoned with. Do now catch and hold on to anyone's definition of yourself. I said:

DO NOT ACCEPT ANYONE'S DEFINITION OF WHO YOU ARE!!!

DO NOT!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mavrik, I disagree with you. What people around you say matters ALOT.

The older more experienced I get, the more I understand that. If people say you're creepy, you're creepy. If they look up to you, you are the sh*t.

Dont lie to yourself man, you know how it is.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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You need to accept who you are and love yourself. But, you also need to recognize what you are not good at. Then, make those changes to improve yourself.
 

Mavrick

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
You need to accept who you are and love yourself. But, you also need to recognize what you are not good at. Then, make those changes to improve yourself.
Realizing what you're not good at is part of accepting yourself.
 

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DJVladdy said:
Mavrik, I disagree with you. What people around you say matters ALOT.

The older more experienced I get, the more I understand that. If people say you're creepy, you're creepy. If they look up to you, you are the sh*t.

Dont lie to yourself man, you know how it is.
It does not matter to me what people think of me. It just doesn't, and I could care less if they think I'm the sh!t or if I'm a creep because no one else defines me, but because I accept myself completely (flaws and all) I never come off creepy.
 

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DJVladdy said:
Mavrik, I disagree with you. What people around you say matters ALOT.

The older more experienced I get, the more I understand that. If people say you're creepy, you're creepy. If they look up to you, you are the sh*t.

Dont lie to yourself man, you know how it is.
Mavrick is right.

Look at happy and unhappy people. Happy people are happy with themselves and accept themselves no matter what.

Unhappy people are not happy with themselves and are always needing to show other people how great they are because they care so much about what other people think.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wutangfinancial said:
yep, and if girls tell you that you're ugly, you're ugly. Fix it, any way you have to, cuz beauty is NOT in the eye of the beholder, it's the pretty much the same from girl to girl.

The main thing holding guys back on here is looks, I guarantee, and most are to embarrassed to confront reality.
The main thing holding guys back here is using the looks excuse. Unless you look like the elephant man I'm sure some girls will find you attractive.

If you're bothered by your looks then that means you're unhappy with yourself and so if you're not happy with yourself how can you girls to be happy with you?

All the ugly guys who get attractive girls are not bothered about their looks.
 

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Mavrick said:
It does not matter to me what people think of me. It just doesn't, and I could care less if they think I'm the sh!t or if I'm a creep because no one else defines me, but because I accept myself completely (flaws and all) I never come off creepy.
ditto

There is a certain degree to which you should not care what others think of you and to a certain degree to which you do not act stupid and chode like. What you do for yourself, is for yourself only and people will respect you for that. You speak your mind, you say whatever you want. As long as you're not hurting anyone or seek validation, you're ok. That is what we're talking about when we say we love ourselves. When you worry so much about what others think of you, you give your powers away and you will end up acting stupid in trying to get back that respect. So much rides on respect and reputation. If you lose your self respect, there is no way you can get it back. You've let the horse out of the barn without locking the door.

Next time someone tells you how to live or act, tell them, "Let me worry about me and you worry about you."

Sh>t dude, they have their own sh>t to worry about and they come into your life telling you how you should act or how you should behave? Who's the one making a fool of himself? Get a life!
 

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wutangfinancial said:
yep, and if girls tell you that you're ugly, you're ugly. Fix it, any way you have to, cuz beauty is NOT in the eye of the beholder, it's the pretty much the same from girl to girl.
You sound like a moron.

Why go to the trouble trying to appease everyone? It just doesn't work that way.
 

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some of ya'll ppl are missing his whole point..he aint saying disregard everyone else's opinion and live your own life..he's simply saying if 7 out of 10 girls find you ugly and 7 out of 10 girls find you creepy then pretty much, you're creepy and ugly...ego aside, its not that hard to comprehend
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why is anyone taking advice from this guy? Where has he proven himself? Anyone could just read a David DeAngelo book and get the stuff this guy is saying.
 

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Eh this guy's been around. I have an idea who he is... hes talking from experience actually.
 

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You said:
FACT: you are a joke when it comes to having women in your life, and I am a KING, so i WILL look down on you, but as a good king, i want to help you all as much as possible
Yeah, so I am a loser. I knew that already. I did not need to hear that from you. But wait! The good news is you want to help those people out who cant get a chick. I am waiting for something that remotely says you are trying to help instead of some ego-boasting bullsh!ting ramble that you posted:

positivity_injection said:
whether you are nerdy, geeky, creepy, virgin, AFC, loser, ect, whatever you feel you are or what you have been called, you NEED TO ACCEPT IT AS A FACT

i was the worst everything when i was 17, and at the time, my #1 mistake was not accepting that i was a failure.........when i opened my eyes and realized that i am a failure in the dating world, that is when my best changes happened

i now speak down to all of you as a CERTIFIED PLAYER/DON JUAN

i do speak down to you, its what u deserve for being the failures that you are.........i know u like having your hand help by the "nice don juans" on here, but i will tell u, from personal experience, u will NEVER improve unless you are told straight up that you are at fault for your own failure

i dont want to hear the ones that i am addressing tell me that im bragging, that im flaming, that im this or that, cuz this is not even about ME, its about YOU

FACT: you are a joke when it comes to having women in your life, and I am a KING, so i WILL look down on you, but as a good king, i want to help you all as much as possible

FACT: all unsuccessful men have to listen to successful men, without a single doubt.........it needs to be "yes sir" and that is it, AN UNSUCCESSFUL MAN CANNOT QUESTION A MAN WHO HAS GOOD SUCCESS

FACT: all EXCUSES need to stop now........i dont care if u think shes a slut, i dont care if u think shes an airhead, i dont care if shes not intellectual enough for u...............FVCK HER BRAINS OUT BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT SHE IS THERE FOR, IN YOUR CASE - you are an unsuccessful guy with women, u are to make NO excuses, and you are to get success first, talk later


SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER

SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER

SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER

SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER

SUCCEED FIRST, TALK LATER


you, whoever you are, as an usuccessful man, show RESPECT to the man who knows what he is doing and trying to help you.......dont show any disobedience to a man who is sharing his well-practiced successful knowledge with you and trying to anonymously help you get ahead in life when it comes to getting women


take ALL advice given to you, and apply it----dont even take the time to analyze it or question it, because u are not allowed to!!!!!!!! JUST APPLY IT AND REPORT BACK WITH RESULTS





I think i have seen dozens of guys here stuck in their own AFCness because they are too stubborn to listen to advice of seasoned don juans, the above is for all of them

if you flame me, you'll prove yourself to be hateful chump that you are

good day to all ;)
I guess I just proved myself to be a hateful chump, eh? Forgive me oh great king! :rolleyes:

If you want to help people out, stop posting bullsh!t and post something useful instead of calling those who don't have the success with women like you do, losers, idots, retard, chumps etc... :trouble:

BTW, I listen to whoever the fvck I want to listen to and I will talk to people however the fvck I want to. Helping people out don't mean telling everyone how good you are and calling the rest of us "losers"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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